Do you know anything about the law of attraction? This law can be used in making sure you’re always attracting the right folks in your life. The right people who won’t discourage you but will make you feel that you can accomplish all of the goals which you have set.
If you’re always thinking in a positive way and you have set targets which you are determined to achieve, then possibly you are currently attracting some people into your life.
Everybody has the right to select the type of folks we associate with. While this is so, associating yourself with the wrong company of folk will make you to behave the same way they do. Being in the company of people who behave well will make you to behave like them. You have to ask yourself: what is a good friend?
The shifting of your attention to the kind of folks you do not want in your life to be attracted to enables you to be with the people you wish to be around with in your life.
Realize that your vibration changes when you shift from what you do not want to what you want in your life. One important thing to note is that the law of attraction always matches with your vibration in any particular moment of time.
It is your feelings which will tell you if you’re in vibrational harmony with folk around you. If you meet with someone who is offering a significantly low vibration compared with yours, then you will always feel that he is dragging you down.
The time you will spend with that person won’t be of good experience. Alternatively, when you’re with the individual that has about the same vibration as yours, then it feels great to be with that person. You’ll be in a vibrational harmony with such a person.
Suppose you are the one who has a much low vibration? This usually happens if you are with someone who has a significant higher vibration than yours.
When you’re with that person you may feel not comfortable but one thing you must understand is that he’ll raise your vibration in order to match with his.
How does one handle a person who has got a negative attitude in your life? It’s not difficult to handle people who have negative attitudes. When having a dialogue with such folk you should listen to what they are saying so as to know what they want and what they do not want.
By doing this you’ll come to know how negative they are in their life. Afterward you can start asking them the following two questions:
1.) What would you like in your life?
2.) Do you want to change your negative attitude about some things?
If they reply positively by mentioning what they want and that they’d like to change their negative attitude, then in that moment their vibration has shifted. It has now begun to rise so as to match that of yours.
Bear in mind that folks will treat you in some ways if you allow them to treat you so. This means in the law of attraction that it’s you who can set the boundaries of how folks treat you.
It is up to you today to decide to maintain a high vibration by being surrounded with folk who’ve a positive attitude towards life and everything around them.